Why Do Dudes Think You’re In Competition With The Other Girls? Because if you’re in competition with the men, you might be better than they are. And a lot of them can’t handle this, and even more weirdly it’s like it doesn’t even really occur to them.
Molly Lambert, In Which We Teach You How To Be A Woman In Any Boys’ Club
There’s so much good stuff in there, I honestly couldn’t really decide what to quote. Just read it, mkay?